Comments on: I Ain’t Saying She a Golddigger http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/ Fri, 12 Mar 2010 00:59:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: airica angel http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-647 airica angel Fri, 31 Jul 2009 22:42:43 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-647 actually, kate, that's a good way to make sure he NEVER gets a date. telling a woman you've just met that you "won't tolerate golddiggers" makes you sound bitter and distrustful. just have a casual first AND second date- coffee, drinks, a park, museum, or gallery- nothing over ten bucks- and see how she responds. if she gets upset, get rid of her. a person who's interested in you isn't going to care how much you spend on the first dates, but a person you're interested in, would be really turned off by the assumption that they might be a golddigger. i've had first dates that were nothing more than ice cream and conversation, first dates that were in my home with a meal i cooked, even a couple where we just drove around and talked. it doesn't have to be chez pricey to be great! sounds like you met a dinner whore, btw, the new term for serial dating women who only go out for the free meal. women like that are disgusting. you should have agreed to take her to the most expensive place you could find, eaten half your meal, and excused yourself to go to the restroom- then ditched that shallow tramp with the check! some people deserve a dine and dash. actually, kate, that’s a good way to make sure he NEVER gets a date. telling a woman you’ve just met that you “won’t tolerate golddiggers” makes you sound bitter and distrustful.

just have a casual first AND second date- coffee, drinks, a park, museum, or gallery- nothing over ten bucks- and see how she responds. if she gets upset, get rid of her. a person who’s interested in you isn’t going to care how much you spend on the first dates, but a person you’re interested in, would be really turned off by the assumption that they might be a golddigger.

i’ve had first dates that were nothing more than ice cream and conversation, first dates that were in my home with a meal i cooked, even a couple where we just drove around and talked. it doesn’t have to be chez pricey to be great!

sounds like you met a dinner whore, btw, the new term for serial dating women who only go out for the free meal. women like that are disgusting.

you should have agreed to take her to the most expensive place you could find, eaten half your meal, and excused yourself to go to the restroom- then ditched that shallow tramp with the check!

some people deserve a dine and dash.

]]> By: Jess http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-435 Jess Fri, 26 Jun 2009 10:59:16 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-435 What total crap! Looks like you dodged a bullet! What total crap! Looks like you dodged a bullet!

]]> By: Kate http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-366 Kate Sun, 14 Jun 2009 13:55:48 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-366 On the first date go to a average place,not expensive. You can pay on first date, but dont ever again pay thereafter!Make clear on the first date that you wont tolerate goldiggers , and that she must pay half of everything that needs to be paid in the relationship. Dont pay for her, and then you will quickly see how genuine she is. If she cant keep up with your financial income, then lower your standard of life!Dont even let her pay only 10 percent ,just because she earns less, she will still use you. Just lower your standard of life. Never show a woman that you are wealthy , untill you know her very well,-at least 2 years.Infact I would insist never,ever disclose your wealth to her at all. EVER!!That way you will soon figure out if she is genuine. If she pays up half of everything , provided you lower your life standard then you know she is genuine. On the first date go to a average place,not expensive. You can pay on first date, but dont ever again pay thereafter!Make clear on the first date that you wont tolerate goldiggers , and that she must pay half of everything that needs to be paid in the relationship. Dont pay for her, and then you will quickly see how genuine she is. If she cant keep up with your financial income, then lower your standard of life!Dont even let her pay only 10 percent ,just because she earns less, she will still use you. Just lower your standard of life. Never show a woman that you are wealthy , untill you know her very well,-at least 2 years.Infact I would insist never,ever disclose your wealth to her at all. EVER!!That way you will soon figure out if she is genuine. If she pays up half of everything , provided you lower your life standard then you know she is genuine.

]]> By: Michael http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-322 Michael Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:38:39 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-322 For first dates, stick to drinks only (preferably no more than 2 each). If first date works out, then do dinner. This is a good way to save some money and not waste time. For first dates, stick to drinks only (preferably no more than 2 each). If first date works out, then do dinner. This is a good way to save some money and not waste time.

]]> By: SomeBlondeChick http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-310 SomeBlondeChick Wed, 27 May 2009 23:24:05 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-310 I sort of feel bad for her - she's so self-absorbed she missed out on what sounds like a genuinely good man. Of course, that also means she doesn't deserve him! I sort of feel bad for her – she’s so self-absorbed she missed out on what sounds like a genuinely good man. Of course, that also means she doesn’t deserve him!

]]> By: Cynthian http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-300 Cynthian Mon, 25 May 2009 18:17:38 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-300 shoulda just left her there, haha. but good job, you were nice. shoulda just left her there, haha. but good job, you were nice.

]]> By: Sam http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-277 Sam Mon, 25 May 2009 04:19:02 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-277 Wow, she didn't even deserved the $10 bucks for the cab! Wow, she didn’t even deserved the $10 bucks for the cab!

]]> By: Megahn & Marie http://myveryworstdate.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-137 Megahn & Marie Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:17:00 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.wordpress.com/2009/03/19/i-aint-saying-she-a-golddigger/#comment-137 Excellent recession/bad date story! Way to do topical. Excellent recession/bad date story! Way to do topical.

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