Presidential Power

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Remember the date night the Obamas had a few weeks back in Manhattan? Well, according to the New York Times, the First Couple has caused a stir with women who wish their husbands would would be romantic like our President. Even with the economic crisis, dealing with two ongoing wars and raising two girls, Barack always puts daily “Michelle time” on his schedule.

“I’m jealous,” said Emily Giffin, the Atlanta-based writer of Love the One You’re With and other chick-lit novels. Home stats: married seven years to a corporate executive, three children under six.

Last date with husband? She’s thinking, she mutters. “We don’t have a date night, I have to say,” Ms. Giffin said. A lame excuse? Her husband’s beloved Pittsburgh Penguins are in the Stanley Cup finals. “But I flew to New York alone and went out with my friends while he stayed home with the kids,” she said. “Does that count?” 

Most of us don’t have private planes to whisk our sweethearts away for a Friday night date, but we think making a fuss over your partner (male or female) once in awhile can only do good. And why not take a cue from the President and First Lady? They genuinely seem to adore each other and that’s what counts.

Comments (2)
PademelonJune 11th, 2009 at 1:41 am

One of the reasons I love watching the Obamas is how connected and romantic they seem with one another. They seem to find or sneak time together even though he’s one of the busiest men in the world. I mean, love him or hate him, the man has ultimate job stress!

The hubs and I have a date night. We’ve only been married 3 years and are very happy but we started date night almost immediately after getting married. Just before we got married, a good friend of ours got divorced and when they were trying to save their marriage, they tried a date night. But it ended up just being an obligation and a burden for our friends husband and our friend mentioned she thought it had been a good idea but it was too little too late. We decided to try out the idea of “date night” before any potential trouble because we have very crazy lives. Hubs works out of town between 2 and 5 days a week on an unpredictable schedule and I’m on my own schedule because I’m a double-majoring uni student.

We don’t actually go out on a date every week but we try to every couple of weeks, even if it’s just dinner. Having it out there as an informal tradition reminds us to schedule time together and appreciate the love and good things we have, regardless of how bad things seem or how crazy things are or how little we see one another. It reminds us to look at the big picture, which actually keeps up more romantic day to day because, in part at least, it’s never been that long since we had that time together. Since it’s not an obligation on either side, it’s also a good way to say, “I miss you and I need time with you,” without any guilt about who’s been too busy or why.

Not Living in FantasylandJune 30th, 2009 at 6:00 pm

I hate to interrupt really intense gushing but doesn’t anyone have a problem with Obamarama? It can’t be that difficult to be romantic on the taxpayers’ dime. Your husband could probably be more attentive if he wasn’t working his ass off earning a living to support your romance and help pay for Obamapalooza. I mean seriously – wouldn’t you have enjoyed the Broadway show and fancy dinner you helped pay for?

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