Family-Style Mall Date

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When I was in high school, I allowed my mom – after some bribing on her part – to set me up on a blind date. I drove 45 minutes to meet the guy, with whom I had talked to on the phone a few times. I wasn’t expecting an amazing date after the phone chats but figured I could at least try one date with him. He wanted to meet at the local mall in front of the fish tanks so we could easily find each other. I arrived and sat in front of the tanks.

While hanging out, a very hot guy walked by smiling at me. Thinking it was him, I flashed a smile back but he kept walking. I knew I would regret not saying hi to him when my “date” stepped out of the woodworks. He had been watching me from a distance and wanted to check me out before he met me.

He had a pocket protector and was definitely a geek, not that I had a problem with that. We had dinner at a restaurant in the mall and made small talk. Afterwards, he invited me to walk around the mall with him. During these laps, we met most of his family, friends and some of his classmates.

Coincidence? Unlikely. He then wanted to take me to a movie but I gave him the only excuse I could think of that is, that I had night blindness and had to drive home before it got too dark. I didn’t call him back.

Comments (7)
BenJuly 2nd, 2009 at 9:03 am

“He had a pocket protector and was definitely a geek, not that I had a problem with that.” Are you sure? Why do you bring that up if you didn’t have a problem with it?

It sounds like you had a bad date, but I’m not sure who I feel more sorry for: the guy who was clearly set up with someone who felt she was far above him; or you who gets paraded around the mall.

And next time, instead of a clearly lame excuse of “night blindness”; why not just say “thank you, but no.”?

airica angelAugust 1st, 2009 at 11:07 am

you’re a snob. i feel sorrier for him.

ChellAugust 8th, 2009 at 10:22 pm

Maybe she was giving us the quick description of him. I love geeks. And I will point them out. maybe she was making sure we knew this, because she ran into everyone he knows. Like this nerd had to prove he was out with a girl. And lets not forget he made sure she passed his test…

PersAugust 10th, 2009 at 6:10 am

I think she was just describing the guy too…I didn’t sense any snark before we came to the parading around the mall bit.

RebeccaJanuary 3rd, 2010 at 12:59 pm

Sounds like a pretty typical teenager date. Hanging out at the mall as a date is not usual for kids around here.

nancyApril 6th, 2010 at 2:02 am

She assumed that he was eying her out to pass his test, but maybe he was just nervous. This girl is snobby, I definitely feel sorry for him. You’re a douche bag.

SurrealianJuly 25th, 2010 at 3:23 am

Oh please! She obviously didn’t see this going anywhere. I swear, it’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t with these self-righteous commentors. If a girl stays on a date that she knows she not interested in, everyone’s like “wtf? are you stupid?” and if she ditches him the moment she can she’s a “snob”?!

I applaud her for ending the date when she did. The guy may have been not that horrible, but she ended it instead of postponing the inevitable.

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