What a Turkey

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A few years back, I was invited to Thanksgiving dinner with the family of my boyfriend of two months. Since he worked close by, but his parents lived forty minutes away, he offered to pick me up and take me home. When we arrived, I was surprised to find that two of his “buddies” were also there. I felt a little odd since I had never met his parents and the way he had sold the dinner to me, he made it seem as if this would be the official “meet the parents” dinner. It wasn’t.

As soon as the plates were cleared my date took off upstairs, followed immediately by one of his friends. I thought nothing of it until 20 minutes later they were still upstairs, leaving me and his one other “buddy” alone with his parents. Not to mention there were several odd, loud noises coming from above us. Eventually his other friend became frustrated and went upstairs to join them and this is when the noises got even louder.

After 40 minutes, the three came back downstairs, and my boyfriend proceeded to go into the living room and fall asleep. His two friends decided to leave around the same time, so I asked the one for a ride home, in which he obliged. This is when my “sleeping” date somehow heard this and came out of the living room, screaming and threatening his friend. The last thing I wanted was to get back into a car with my date, but he basically threatened me until I had no other choice. And the entire time his family did nothing to help me, but only condoned his behavior.

The ride home was awkward and he kept trying to explain himself, but I didn’t want to hear it. After that day, I refused to see him again. And I still do not know what the three of them were doing upstairs, nor do I want to.

Comments (13)
PersNovember 26th, 2009 at 8:29 am

…my mind is just going from bad to worse thinking about what those guys were doing up there! Ewww…lol

Ali ANovember 26th, 2009 at 7:43 pm

Whoa, OP. You have some control. I’d be quite curious, lol. Sounds like some man-on-man action. And that would be fine, if he was single. What a lame date/boyfriend.

MouseNovember 26th, 2009 at 7:56 pm

What kind of noises? I’m confused.

LaylaNovember 26th, 2009 at 9:27 pm

Meh, they were probably wrestling or playing video games. Doesn’t sound creepy to me.

The really sad thing is that this guy was insensitive enough to leave his guest alone for an extended period of time, and then fall asleep. (?!) He was either extremely immature or extremely self-centered, or both. Good for you for breaking it off before he had more opportunities to exhibit these traits.

EightballNovember 26th, 2009 at 10:58 pm

He sounds extremely young and just wanted you there to say, “Lookit, I have a DATE.”

Frau BlucherNovember 27th, 2009 at 7:07 am

really immature and spoiled and sounds like his family spoils him. Blech.

MichelleNovember 29th, 2009 at 11:52 am

Yeah, I bet that whole family has issues, good thing you ran!

ShaneDecember 1st, 2009 at 6:27 am

Uh, I can guess what they were doing upstairs. Especially when he got angry when the two “friends” were leaving around the same time.

CatherineDecember 1st, 2009 at 9:34 am

I hope you did not have sex with this guy. If you did I hope you got an HIV test.

xDecember 2nd, 2009 at 9:25 pm

catherine, in today’s society that has become a ridiculous stereotype. HIV/AIDS should not be perceived as a gay disease.

SikaDecember 4th, 2009 at 1:23 pm

I agree…even on a site like this…that was uncool

Jon - SEO ManchesterDecember 8th, 2009 at 7:21 am

What an awful experience, sorry to hear about it. I would say that it can only get better but after reading other posts I wouldn’t want to lie…

RobinMay 31st, 2010 at 12:41 am

“catherine, in today’s society that has become a ridiculous stereotype. HIV/AIDS should not be perceived as a gay disease.”

Ummm…sorry. Reality is calling.

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