Travelin’ Man

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I was single and saw that online dating worked for some friends so I tried it via Yahoo. I wound up meeting this really nice guy. He was a pretty well-known guy in the computer world (wrote a few books, managed a software product, etc). So we met at a casual place and it went well, but it was really short. Then he called me from Boston and other states since he was often traveling. We talked for hours all the time. Then he wanted to meet me at a cafe, yet it was in his car. It was just for 10 minutes and nothing ever happened. We just talked.

Then he took me to lunch and said, “You know, I can tell you have all sorts of issues and you should go see someone.”

And he continued to enlighten me with all of my supposed issues. It was embarassing yet he drove so I had to sit there and take it. I told him to go screw himself. He called a few weeks later and apologized. He told me that to make it up, he would pick me up from the airport. I got back from my trip and he never showed. He emailed me and told me that his garage door was stuck and it was raining so he couldn’t come. I checked the weather and it wasn’t raining. So I told him to screw himself again.

He called me three weeks later at 5am from Greece supposedly (his caller ID said so) and said he was so sorry, that there were some things going and I flipped out telling him I bet he was married and how dare he play me. Why would someone only do car dates, quick meetings and blow you off at odd times? He was a real jerk.

Comments (9)
JillDecember 10th, 2009 at 1:02 pm

This story is kind of hard to understand. However, from what I got out of it, he was a total douche.

Frau BlucherDecember 10th, 2009 at 1:29 pm

it is kind of confusing but what caught my attention is him telling you about your ‘issues’. HE probably read some crap new-age book about positive thinking that was mentioned on Oprah. I love when people tell you what’s wrong with you. ANy guy who starts that with me- that’s a dealbreaker right then and there.

LisaDecember 10th, 2009 at 7:41 pm

A stuck garage door is a semi-plausible excuse for not picking you up as promised… but, rain?

And, why did you then double-check the weather report, since the rain excuse was so baffling to begin with?

Maybe you DO have issues. Or, maybe he rides a scooter?

BethDecember 11th, 2009 at 8:20 am

In defense of the OP and the rain. I live in a city in Ohio where people freak out at rain and will leave work early, go in late, cancel plans and so on just because of the rain.

MichelleDecember 11th, 2009 at 11:51 am

Lisa, when you smell a rat, you often check it out. It’s called following your intuition. I would have checked after he had already given me so many fishy stories.

LisaDecember 12th, 2009 at 7:31 am

I guess it’s not that strange to double-check a suspicious story.

What I find strange is: A) she was waiting at the airport and could readily observe the weather conditions for herself, and B) WHY would rain rule out an intended trip to the airport, anyhow?

BellerophonDecember 14th, 2009 at 8:44 am

I’d have to hear his side of the story. Sounds like you might INDEED have issues. Feels like plenty was left out of your little narrative there.

TheRestOfTheStoryDecember 14th, 2009 at 10:48 am

No kidding. A guy who likes to talk for hours?! Don’t think so…it was probably the chick who was forcing the conversation.

Anyway, did you get your issues resolved, and then thank the guy at least?

PencilCDecember 17th, 2009 at 9:55 am

You have to be pretty stupid to give him so many chances. Or, I suppose, extremely desperate.

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