Comments on: Getting Personal

By: Kat

Kat — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 07:46:44 +0000

Ewww. What a freaking creep! He needs to go get a life and find some women his OWN AGE

By: Dynamite

Dynamite — Mon, 04 Jul 2011 00:14:45 +0000

wow thats awful you went through that but what pisses me off a little is that you pleaded and were almost in tears because you wanted a ride home? couldn’t you of called someone to
come get you I would of not of put up with a idiot talking to me that way. Good thing you got home safe because who knows what would of happened, hopefully now you learned your lesson not to meet complete strangers off ads. alot of Sickos out there!

By: Ducks

Ducks — Sun, 06 Feb 2011 07:18:54 +0000

Oh my God, I am so glad the OP got home safely. This could have easily ended up VERY badly. I wish I had been in that bar, I would have given her a ride home in a heartbeat!

I don’t think people here are trying to “blame the victim”, they are just trying to point out how what she did was NOT in her best interests, and how she could do things differently if she found herself in another bad situation. Though I’m hoping she won’t have problems like this again.

While I don’t date, and wouldn’t consider online dating, if I met up with someone who was TOTALLY different from their profile picture, I would end it right there. The person was being deceitful in order to get a date in the first place, so how can they be trusted? And trust is a very important part of a relationship.

By: Colliebabe

Colliebabe — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 19:14:09 +0000

Horrible story! As I was reading this I kept picturing the song “Date Rape” by Sublime.

By: H

Sun, 08 Aug 2010 08:51:19 +0000

I’m a bartender in a college town. Our public transportation stops at midnight; I see lots of young people out and stranded. The staff where I work always try to spot those who are too confused/drunk/stranded by recent new “friends”/whatever and offer to call them cabs. Twice in the last year I have paid for cabs to take young women home who were in a similar situation described by this post’s author. (Both times they returned days later to pay me back , but if they hadn’t, I would have no regrets.) If you are without transportation, in a bad situation, please do not be afraid to ask a bartender, bouncer, waitress, usher, doorman, WHOEVER for help getting home. No one wants you getting back into a car with a scary creep.

By: Micky

Micky — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 12:47:19 +0000

Why could you just call a cab?

By: Joe G

Joe G — Wed, 21 Apr 2010 07:35:08 +0000

Please, for the love of God…

NEXT TIME THEY DESCRIBE THEIR PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES, AND DON’T COME CLOSE TO WHAT THEY PUT, CALL IT OFF.

Holy cow! “40, overweight, balding and wearing incredibly tight pants” –> how could you take a chance with that?

The guy doesn’t take care of his physical self, thats usually a red flag already.

By: bao

bao — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 09:40:07 +0000

That guy is so creepy and pathetic at the same time. He has serious issues man.

By: Miranda

Miranda — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 08:16:54 +0000

It’s stories like this that make me glad I’m lonely and pathetic.

By: Vajra

Vajra — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 18:29:25 +0000

Well, the one good thing us younger men can learn is: don’t turn out like him.