Rock and Roll

B and I had been on two casual dates when I won concert tickets to see four bands from a local radio station. I planned to go with my best friend, but she had a family emergency the day before and  couldn’t make it. I called B at the last minute and asked him if he’d like to drive the two hours to Columbia, MD with me to see the bands, all of whom he had expressed appreication for. He was in so I picked him up and everything was fine at first; he even slow-danced with me during the headlining act’s token love song. On the ride home I was feeling frisky, as was he, so we pulled off the side of the road and engaged in some non-platonic fun. Once back on the road, with about an hour and a half to go, I was feeling good and cheerfully tried to continue conversation. I asked him if he wanted to go to the beach sometime in the coming weeks and he responded, “I don’t think we should see each other again.”  We rode the rest of the way home in complete silence.

Comments (14)
AnnieFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 9:20 am

How do you ask someone if they want to drive, and then drive them?

KellyFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 9:53 am

How odd! Did you ask why?

kissmymangoFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 11:29 am

LOL. WTF? weirdo.

GrammarnaziFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 1:46 pm

What a D-bag!
ROFL @ “non-platonic fun”. I am totally stealing that euphemism.

LaylaFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 3:34 pm

Ew! Jerk.

BellerophonFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 8:11 pm

Sweet, she must’ve have been a total B to him. I know guys who purposely broke it off with a girl in a way they’ll remember…like this one.

LisaFebruary 3rd, 2010 at 9:35 pm

Why’d you drop the conversational-ball, by not responding to “I don’t think we should see each other again”?

Weren’t you at least a little curious?

Maggie MayFebruary 4th, 2010 at 4:23 am

I agree, there is something missing here. We need his side of the story, I think.

MMMichelleFebruary 4th, 2010 at 11:21 am

Yeah if someone said that to me after that, I would click the release button on the seat belt and hit the break. You wont see me again but you will see your nose swell…

DanaFebruary 4th, 2010 at 12:01 pm

ooh, ouch. I’m sorry that happened to you :( This kind of thing is why I don’t buy that three-date crap. Love “non-platonic fun” though!

LalliFebruary 4th, 2010 at 2:01 pm

You didn’t even ask why? The curiosity would just kill me!

LFebruary 4th, 2010 at 10:07 pm

Since she didn’t ask–maybe he didn’t have as much non platonic fun as she did.
Just a theory…

Francois TremblayFebruary 14th, 2010 at 8:52 pm

So essentially, a guy should never tell a woman that he doesn’t want to be with her in the future. Is that the lesson here? Because otherwise I fail to see what the problem is.

MsKittyApril 23rd, 2010 at 3:43 am

The old “hit it and quit it” maneuver. Hardly a newsflash if you’ve “dated” more than, say, 2 guys, ever.

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