Comments on: WORST DATE IN AMERICA FINALIST: Valentine’s Day Don’t http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 12:24:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: CJ http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3251 CJ Wed, 24 Feb 2010 03:59:43 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3251 Wow! You guys and girls are brutal and just plain hateful! I'm sure that none of you have ever made a foolish decision because you were head over heels. We've all wanted to believe that we could be the one to change someone's mind and sometimes we get slapped in the face with a dose of reality. That's how we learn! I'm slightly baffled at how hateful people are....Guess it's easy to be so rude when you can hide! So, submitter, you are really brave to share that horrible story. Years later, you can laugh. He was clearly a prick! I'm sure that you do not really wear a black armband on V-day and that you were just joking although people didn't seem to understand that based on their ridiculous input! Whoever you are, I'm sure you're blissfully happy now! Wow! You guys and girls are brutal and just plain hateful! I’m sure that none of you have ever made a foolish decision because you were head over heels. We’ve all wanted to believe that we could be the one to change someone’s mind and sometimes we get slapped in the face with a dose of reality. That’s how we learn!
I’m slightly baffled at how hateful people are….Guess it’s easy to be so rude when you can hide!
So, submitter, you are really brave to share that horrible story. Years later, you can laugh. He was clearly a prick! I’m sure that you do not really wear a black armband on V-day and that you were just joking although people didn’t seem to understand that based on their ridiculous input! Whoever you are, I’m sure you’re blissfully happy now!

]]> By: Lisa http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3153 Lisa Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:14:18 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3153 While I'm sure it was a rude slap in the face when it occurred, I agree wholeheartedly with the others-- consider yourself lucky to have 'lost' him, because he sounds like a doormat. While I’m sure it was a rude slap in the face when it occurred, I agree wholeheartedly with the others– consider yourself lucky to have ‘lost’ him, because he sounds like a doormat.

]]> By: Helen Skor http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3149 Helen Skor Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:48:51 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3149 Heather, you said "you should’ve seen it coming." But in reality, just about everyone on this site should have seen it coming. But the thing is, we don't. Guys and girls alike, we all avoid those tell-tale signs that something totally awful is about to happen. All of those little alarms and red flags - we ignore them because we are in love - or in love with the idea of being love. So cut the submitter some slack! And Emily - I totally agree with you on how she dodged a bullet! Any guy who doesn't have the backbone to stand up to his ex and tell her that enough is enough, or who doesn't have the decency to at least talk to you about what's going on in a private setting, doesn't deserve all the tears he probably caused. Heather, you said “you should’ve seen it coming.” But in reality, just about everyone on this site should have seen it coming. But the thing is, we don’t. Guys and girls alike, we all avoid those tell-tale signs that something totally awful is about to happen. All of those little alarms and red flags – we ignore them because we are in love – or in love with the idea of being love. So cut the submitter some slack!

And Emily – I totally agree with you on how she dodged a bullet! Any guy who doesn’t have the backbone to stand up to his ex and tell her that enough is enough, or who doesn’t have the decency to at least talk to you about what’s going on in a private setting, doesn’t deserve all the tears he probably caused.

]]> By: emily http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3143 emily Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:06:10 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3143 You should wear a more brightly colored armband in celebration... sounds like you dodged a bullet with this guy! You should wear a more brightly colored armband in celebration… sounds like you dodged a bullet with this guy!

]]> By: me http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3141 me Fri, 19 Feb 2010 10:26:27 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3141 god i hate it when women fuck with men like that, and i hate it when men are stupid enough to put up with it! gah. god i hate it when women fuck with men like that, and i hate it when men are stupid enough to put up with it! gah.

]]> By: Heather http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3140 Heather Fri, 19 Feb 2010 07:41:19 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3140 As obvious as the outcome was, I was sympathetic until the very last line. Now all I can say is get over it, you should've seen it coming. As obvious as the outcome was, I was sympathetic until the very last line. Now all I can say is get over it, you should’ve seen it coming.

]]> By: Sophie http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3137 Sophie Fri, 19 Feb 2010 03:24:53 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3137 That's just awful. That’s just awful.

]]> By: Dreamss http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3136 Dreamss Thu, 18 Feb 2010 22:34:36 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3136 Ahahaha! That is awsome! Oh BRAVO!! Seriously you should get a shrine together in honor of this person who dissed you. That would be a healthy expression I think. Ahahaha! That is awsome! Oh BRAVO!!
Seriously you should get a shrine together in honor of this person who dissed you. That would be a healthy expression I think.

]]> By: Meshell http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3134 Meshell Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:26:41 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3134 I agree with Molly -- MOVE ON! Nothing is more annoying that hearing my grandmother bitch about my grandfather that left her for another woman. Don't be a Granny Weatherall! I agree with Molly — MOVE ON! Nothing is more annoying that hearing my grandmother bitch about my grandfather that left her for another woman. Don’t be a Granny Weatherall!

]]> By: M http://myveryworstdate.com/2010/02/18/worst-date-in-america-finalist-valentines-day-dont/comment-page-1/#comment-3133 M Thu, 18 Feb 2010 20:18:59 +0000 http://myveryworstdate.com/?p=2126#comment-3133 @rawr: maybe ... mostly the line just seemed to be an annoying attempt at being different and look-at-me. @rawr: maybe … mostly the line just seemed to be an annoying attempt at being different and look-at-me.

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