Blind Pool Date

MVWD happened during my fresher’s week of uni, and surprise, surprise, it was a blind date. Do they ever go well? D, a girl who lived opposite me, had a fiancée that had obviously taken a shine to me. In order to get me away from her fella (who I had no interest in at all), she organised a double date for me to meet a friend of theirs. I was living the free single uni life and thought “well why not?”

T had no teeth and had the appearance of a thug. He was also the strong silent type. We went out for pizza and the three of us chatted away while T (who knew the others better than I did – as Id only known them for 3 days) said nothing. At the end of the meal, I got my purse out and his first words to me were “I’ll get it.” Very kind of him, but I had assumed by then that he wasn’t interested and was no longer a date.

As a group we decided to move on to a pub, and T drove. He was a boy racer and drove the kind of way that would have given my driving instructor a heart attack. We played pool in the pub and again T went mute. D kept trying to push us into corners together, but it was fairly obvious to me that the date was over. As I left, T came running out of the pub and his second sentence to me was “so should we do this again sometime?”

Needless to say it was the oddest “date” I have ever been on and it wasn’t repeated. D’s second attempt to stop her fiancée from speaking to me was to ignore me. A shame, but no skin off my nose, as by then I had made plenty of friends.

Comments (20)
JeffAugust 19th, 2010 at 7:13 am

You must not have had many dates if that was your worst date ever.

rafboyAugust 19th, 2010 at 8:37 am

Yeah- you are truly blessed if that was your worst date.

TheRestOfTheStoryAugust 19th, 2010 at 8:55 am

“I noticed you don’t have any teeth. Is that why you’re not talking much?”

karenAugust 19th, 2010 at 8:58 am

time for girl to dump mr. fiancee, he’s got a roving eye, he needs to KEEP it.

MeshellAugust 19th, 2010 at 10:01 am

Yeah, and D needs to learn to healthily deal with her issues.

And while we are on the topics of who needs what wherein I provide my unbiased judgment, T needs to get himself some dentures and conversation skills.

tronnerAugust 19th, 2010 at 12:46 pm

Blind dates don’t automatically mean very worst dates. My parents met on a blind date. I met my gf of two years on a blind date. Good dates happen on occasion :)

GlennAugust 19th, 2010 at 5:00 pm

“MVWD happened during my fresher’s week of uni”

What is “fresher’s”? Is that freshmen year of university in England? If so, then I’m assuming the OP is 18. Why would she be living next to somebody that’s engaged?

dbonesAugust 19th, 2010 at 6:34 pm

Hate to be the grammar/usage police here, but I was initially confused by the story because the OP had written “fiancée” and then started talking about the “fella.” It’s “fiancé” for a dude, kids. This lesson has been brought to you by the letter G and the number 2.

UnsightlyJelloAugust 19th, 2010 at 9:05 pm

Is this from the UK or Germany or elsewhere? (I originally assumed the OP is German since that’s the German term for university)

nachturnalAugust 20th, 2010 at 1:25 am

T might have just been shy to meet someone new. If this was your worst date, I’d seriously say you got off easy.

zomboidAugust 20th, 2010 at 2:35 am

british people say ‘uni’ too…along with ‘pub’ and ‘fella’ (and the bad dentistry, ho ho) i’d say that makes the location the UK.

JohnAugust 20th, 2010 at 3:57 am

Yeah “freshers week” in the UK is the first week you arrive at “Uni” (another UK term), before the work starts usually filled up with alcohol fueled random hook ups etc

rafboyAugust 20th, 2010 at 8:24 am

Uni (for Universität) in German is the same nickname as in English.

OPAugust 20th, 2010 at 8:39 am

Yes, I must admit Ive been rather blessed when it comes to dating. I was 19 when this happened and prior to that I had had two boyfriends, which were just your average run of the mill teenage relationships, and after two years of dating around I ended up with my current fella whom Ive been with for 5 years now. So in the 2 years of opportunity, this was MY worst. Definately not the worst thats been on here, I know that.

I am British, and despite English being my first (and only language) I am embarrassingly poor at it. Sorry :-)

D was the same age as me, I have no idea why she decided to live in halls and not with her fella, or even commute from home as she lived 5 minutes down the road. But who am I to question?

Can I just say: YEY! My story got posted. Hmm, may try my hand at MYWJ next!

pkAugust 20th, 2010 at 8:11 pm

Ugh, the no-teeth thing would have been enough for me!

BloodyNeptuneAugust 20th, 2010 at 11:40 pm

dbones, I, too, was put off the entire story by a missing E. Some people.

YGAugust 21st, 2010 at 12:22 am

I’m thinking if he was missing teeth he smoked a lot and didn’t have much in the way of a dental hygiene routine…you’re well shot of him, hen!

LiseyAugust 21st, 2010 at 6:42 am

I’m amazed that someone managed to get into halls if their family live that close, one of the universities I applied for would’ve been an hour or so on trains and buses and it was still touch and go whether I’d have got accommodation there…

KatAugust 21st, 2010 at 10:04 am

@Glenn – Hi, I’m 21, in college, and I’m engaged. We do exist.

ClaireAugust 21st, 2010 at 3:28 pm

Congratulations on not pointing out that there’s a certain kind of guy who crushes on you and they typically have teeth. You know, like D’s fiance.

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