Zero Tolerance

A couple of years ago, I met a guy through a friend of a friend at a barbecue. He was cute, charming and really funny, so when he asked me out, I said yes. He said he’d pick me up and take me to a nice restaurant that was out of town. Since it was summer, I wore a dress and heels (he was taller than me, which is rare, another reason I agreed). When he picked me up, everything was perfect- the sun was just setting, it was a beautiful summer evening and I honestly thought I was going to have a great time.

As we were driving down the highway, he casually mentioned that he’d been to the pub before with his friends and had a couple of beers. There is a zero tolerance law in my country, so naturally, I started freaking out a little. I didn’t have a driver’s license at the time, so I couldn’t exactly kick him out and drive myself, so I just hoped to God that nothing would happen and told him that it wasn’t okay with me. About 10 minutes later, a cop car stopped us for a random check and asked my date to take a breathalyser test, which he obviously didn’t pass.

Since I wasn’t able to drive the car, they took both my date and his car away, offering to drive me to the police station, which was miles out of the way, or walk to the gas station that was about 200 meters away. Not wanting to spend even more time with my date, I opted to walk to the gas station.

Quite an experience, walking along in a dress and heels on the highway, with cars stopping every five minutes and sleazy guys asking if I needed a ride. Needless to say, after I called a cab from the gas station, I never returned his (many) calls or texts ever again.

Comments (12)
JayMay 30th, 2012 at 9:27 am

Cops stop people for random checks? I’m really curious to know what country this is.

EllereMay 30th, 2012 at 9:42 am

In Norway cops would sit outside house parties and pull over people after they drove off for random checks. Zero tolerance, severe penalties.

Nice to see an OP knowing when to draw the line, and sticking to it!

beksterMay 30th, 2012 at 9:55 am

In Canada (well, at least Ontario) we have what they call RIDE Programs where they will do random checks. Typically just ask if you’ve had anything to drink and how many/when.

reviewMay 30th, 2012 at 10:15 am

Obvious Euro country cause she spelled BBQ the long, inefficient way. What did you BBQ? Bangers, halloumi, souvlaki?

librederpMay 30th, 2012 at 12:08 pm

Ive seen random checks on a suburban street when its a holiday like new years eve or some such notion. With cones and cops and everything. Sometimes its for drinking, but it can also be for seat belt wearing.

Yet another reason to drive oneself there if possible. or have a friend on standby ….in case. :)

NattieMay 30th, 2012 at 12:38 pm

Very bad date, but better than a car crash!

=PMay 30th, 2012 at 1:51 pm

another one with i dont have a cell phone or a driver’s license so i’m gonna trust this guy i just met. la la la la. *puke*

LouwiiMay 30th, 2012 at 3:18 pm

Aaawww, i wanted OP to take a ride with sleazy stranger and make this date even worser! Where are all the people with bad judgement?

DaniMay 30th, 2012 at 7:24 pm

Australia has random breath checks (not zero-tolerance though)… I thought it was pretty common?

JeffJune 1st, 2012 at 9:11 pm

For those of you in the US, you should know that if you are ever pulled over and asked to take a breathalyzer test, you should always refuse. Offer to take a field sobriety test instead.

If you take the breathalyzer and it registers over the limit, you are automatically guilty – even if you didn’t have a drop to drink and the device was malfunctioning. If you refuse to take it the worst that can happen is your license is suspended for a few months, but you don’t have a DUI conviction on your record.

And no, I’m not speaking from experience.

CatzedongJune 4th, 2012 at 1:00 pm

Basically, all European countries do random alcohol checks both on highways and within towns/cities quite frequently. No Zero Tolerance everywhere though. Zero tolerance policy applies to Croatia, Hungary, Czech Republic, Norway and Sweden, as far as I remember.

Why does everyone have to write ‘needless to say’ in their stories? :-(

KCLeaJune 5th, 2012 at 10:17 pm

When I was younger and riding with my parents we would have random checks. The policeman would have your roll down your window and ask if anyone had been drinking and shine a flashlight in the driver’s eyes. This was in Oklahoma City.

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