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Comment on My Very Worst Set-Up Date by goodgirl

goodgirl — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 00:59:17 +0000

JJ, wanna meet me for coffee?

Comment on A Shady Sign by Dreamss

Dreamss — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:44:01 +0000

There is a book called “Way of the Superior Man” that discusses the concepts of masculine and feminine energy. It sounds like this man just had a lot of feminine energy and so did the poster. This is not meant to be discriminatory, a woman can have masculine energy and a man can have femine energy. This has no bearing on sexuality which is a seperate issue.
I have to take issue with the poster for being so critical and uncompromising in regards to somebody who is simply different. So there is no chemistry, happens all the time, just move on. It doesn’t sound like this guy DID anything particularly wrong.

So I call bad on the poster. Try to learn to be less shallow, accept that not everyone is going to be compatible with you and try to show a little more class and tact.

Comment on My Very Worst Set-Up Date by JJ

JJ — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:41:33 +0000

I don’t see what’s so wrong here. I mean if you don’t know at your initial meeting if you want to marry someone then you obviously don’t know yourself very well and probably shouldn’t be dating at all. OP should be ashamed of himself for leading her on. If he didn’t want to marry her, why did he take that big next step and agree to meet for coffee? Everyone knows coffee date = proposal.

Comment on My Very Worst Set-Up Date by Andrew

Andrew — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:22:47 +0000

She sounds like one of the girls from the college I graduated from. I feel kind of bad for her because she appears to be so desperate.

Comment on My Very Worst Set-Up Date by Alex

Alex — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:44:04 +0000

Wow, desperate much, lady? Good on you forgetting the hell out of there. Just imagine if you were like one of the many overly nice women who post their worst dates here and end up regretting not leaving sooner.

Comment on My Very Worst Set-Up Date by Meshell

Meshell — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:36:41 +0000

Haha, this was well written. Enjoyed it, OP.

Comment on A Shady Sign by Meshell

Meshell — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:35:18 +0000

There are terms out there to describe people that are inherent stereotypes (like bitch, slut, nerd, hick, white trash) that don’t describe the person as a whole. I find the “well, he has manicured nails, so he must be gay and love the wang” attitude to be far more offensive than using at term widely known to stereotype an out-of-touch individual.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=eurotrash

Euro trash isn’t a term used for Europeans or states that all Europeans behave like Bruno. It’s just like American douchebags who travel to France and think YOU SHOULD LEARN TO SPEAK AMERICAN. It’s just as frustrating to watch someone who has a disconnect with reality in America (“Oh this is the American way, flashy, glitzy and high end! miami vice, guyse!”

Let’s create a new name. “Idiots.” That way people can drop the PC-you-said-a-stereotype card and realize that there is a big difference between stereotyping a complete group of people based off tweezed eyebrows and creating an offensive term for people who are out of touch with reality.

Comment on A Shady Sign by Panda

Panda — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:24:20 +0000

I think it’s fair, considering he obviously lied about other things on his profile, to wonder if someone else may have been writing his emails. Most people write in a similar way to how they talk, especially in a casual context, so if his tone and style of speech was completely different, I can understand that. Also, the OP doesn’t say that she assumed someone else wrote them, she said she started wondering about it; there’s a difference.

Comment on My Very Worst Set-Up Date by rawr

rawr — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:58:37 +0000

lolwut?

Eesh, that’s just… scary. I wonder if your friend knew her roomie was like this and felt bad for her or if she only unleashes her, um, whatever it is on, erm, special people. I do feel bad for her since she obviously has some sort of problem, but damn if that isn’t a good way to completely alienate everyone around you.

Comment on Digits Dance by zomboid

zomboid — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:05:17 +0000

nicely said, kissmymango. there’s always such a vibe of frustrated involuntary celibacy from the people who get angry at the OPs here.